Dear , welcome to my family!
We all are very happy for you to come to our family,and we also looking forward to your coming, we hope in the next six months, we can become a family, and for sure we will treat you as a family member, and we hope you will learn more about china culture.
Every family their own rules and habits, we understand and follow thatso as teacher and friendwe hope you can show your positive side to , for example, your language your behavior and the of your room, when knock your door wants to play with you we hope the room is clean that also can be good example for him.
Teaching Mantou English is the most important things for you, we hope you will be happy for thatnot just work for it.
• We want you to teach him some useful sentences , which can use in daily life ,because if he only know the words but dont know how to use it, it doesn't help.
• Everyday study and play together with Mantou not less than 2 hours.
• Use English when you communicate with Mantou, to improve his speaking and listening.
• 学习英文要有教学计划，每周日将下周的学习计划告知家庭，需要写清楚每天学习的内容，单词有哪些 句子有哪些，采取什么样的方式教学（比如想带孩子做实验，手工，画画等），如果需要道具请在计划中写清楚，以方便家庭做准备。家里有一系列英文课本，也可以按照课本来逐步的教授英文，每周计划可以跟妈妈一起制定，提出你的计划，妈妈进行补充和建议。
• We hope you have teaching plans, every Sunday told us whats your plan for next week,list out the details ,what you plan to teach him everyday, the words and sentences you plan to teach,or in which way you want to teach him ,for example , drawing or handwork ,etc ... if you need any materials you also can tell us , we will prepare for you. There also some English book at home , you can use that, also can follow that. The teaching plan you can make with host mom,if the host mom have any suggestions she will tell you.
• Review what you guys have done during that week on weekend, that also should be a part of the plan.
• When you writing on the board should be clear to see.The head writing should be neat and clean.
• Everyday after teaching, before sleep , take Mantou to arrange the toys ,have good habit.
About Chinese Studying:
We know that learning chinese is your main purpose to come to China, so if you want to know how to say in Chinese , just feel free to ask us, dont feel shy, and when you say it wrong ,we will correct it .If you want after you teach Mantou, we can teach you Chinese i think it will be good for you, and learn more Chinese in short time.
• We used to have Chinese food , if you want to eat something just tell us and if you dont eat anything,just feel free to tell us.
• Wash your own clothes once a week.
• 每两周清洗一次床品，包括床单 被罩 枕套
• Every two weeks wash your bedsheet include pillow cover ,bedsheet,etc.
• keep your clothes in the closet , dont put it everywhere in the room, every morning after you get up just make the bed, put everything in order,
• Food rubish throw in the kitchen dustbin.
• do not eat on the bed ,that will dirty the bedsheet and it's not easy to wash it.
Daily life :
We hope you can join every part of the the family activities, do not always in your own room , that will be boring . we can talk , we can watch TV together , play games and some other things also, also can share fun stories with us etc.. maybe we have a little problem during the communitation but thats fine, we can improve that.
The character of Mantou
We just list some character of Mantou, so it's good for you to know him,and make him to accept you.
• Mantou can't pay attention for long time, so when you teach him, he can not sit quietly on the chair, always move around,that make him cannot focus on study ,that time you need have patient with him, repeat the words and the sentences several times then he will remember,but that time you need more patient. He is not adult so his memory and understanding will not be like us , so dont be rush , just take time , he will understand.
• As he is a boy, he have all the boys character but he will not be so naughty , he likes cars and lego, he likes everything about the architecture,but he dont like sports,maybe because we dont like , but i think for the kid he should do some sports sometime.
• He dont have much patients , if he had some problems or some trouble, he wants to quiet, that time we need to encourage him , and help him to solve the problems, give him confident.
• The kids always make mistake, so when he made mistake or not perform good , you need to point it out immeditaly,tell him he did wrong and correct that, tell him why he is wrong, and what is the correct thing to do.
• Before leave the house switch off the air conditioner and the light.
• If you want holiday, tell the host mom one day before.
• If you are sick or not feel well, just tell us immediately, dont handle it by yourself.
• If something make you unhappy or not comfortable , just fell free to tell us, and tell us the reason , we can solve together , because of the culture different, maybe sometime we didnt mean it but for you it's not comfortable,if you didn't tell us , we will never know that,and that also not helpful for us to live together.If we have any idea we also will tell you.
• As parents , we hope we can work together to improve his English, again thank you for understanding,!